Relationships and Sex

Resources that address concerns around LGBTQIA+ relationships and sex.

Relationship Resources

Asexual Relationships FAQ
Answers to common questions compiled by the Asexual Visibility & Education Network.

Aromantic Relationship Terms
A frequently-updated glossary of common vocabulary in the aromantic community relating to attraction and relationships by the Aromantic-spectrum Union for Recognition, Education, and Advocacy.

Queer Platonic Relationships
An interview with several people who identify as aro and/or ace and how they navigate queer platonic relationships.

Non-monogamous Relationships 101
Learn more about different models of relationships, including polyamory and open relationships. Includes glossary, resource list, and FAQ.

Relationship Anarchy
The original relationship anarchy manifesto.

LGBTQ Power and Control Wheel
Recognize the signs of power and control– this model maps out intimate partner violence in queer relationships. If you or someone you know is in crisis, please see crisis support.

The Revolution Starts at Home
This powerful 110-page zine is about confronting intimate violence in activist communities.

Sex Education

Online resources for more information about healthy relationships and safer sex. We also have several healthy relationships and safer sex books as part of our Lending Library.

Healthline’s LGBTQIA+ Safer Sex Guide
An introduction to safer sex topics, such as communication, consent, protection, and safer sex practices.

How to Have Lesbian Sex for the First Time
An introductory guide to lesbian sex.

8 POC Sex Educators You Should Be Following On Instagram

Safer Sex for Trans Bodies Guide
From the Human Rights Campaign and Witman-Walker Health, a guide on how to navigate safer sex as a transgender person.

Planned Parenthood
Planned Parenthood’s guide to safer sex.

Education Comics
Oh Joy Sex Toy, a free weekly sex education webcomic, that debuted April 2013 and updates every Tuesday.

Safer Sex Resources

The Tool Shed
The Tool Shed is a lady-owned sex toy store located near campus at 2427 N Murray Ave. In addition to toys, they sell gender expression apparel and conduct workshops and classes that promote safe sex and body-positivity.

Locations on Campus that Provide Safer Sex Supplies
LGBTQ+ Resource Center – Union EG-35, free
Women’s Resource Center – Union EG-37, free
Student Health and Wellness – Northwest Quad Floor 7, $2-$3